Calling on Cupid: Men More Likely to Fear Being Single on Valentine's Day Finds Harris Poll
New York, N.Y. - February 11, 2013 - Magazines, TV shows and movies would have us believe that women's feelings about Valentine's Day are tied to their Facebook relationship status, and that those who are unattached arrange a date with Ben & Jerry to bemoan being single on February 14th. However, according to Harris Poll findings from an online survey of 2,278 U.S. adults between January 17 and 22, 2013, conducted by Harris Interactive, the tables may have turned. One in four (24%) men say they would rather have a root canal than be single on Valentine's Day, compared with only 16% of women.
Young Love
Age also played a role in how likely people were to say that they'd rather endure a little pain than the prospect of a Valentine's spent solo. 27% of U.S. adults ages 18-35 said they'd choose the root canal, compared with 17% of those ages 36-66 and 14% of those 67 and older.
- When they are coupled up, millennials are also slightly more likely to see the holiday as an opportunity to open the lines of communication.
- 55% of adults ages 18-35 agreed that they see Valentine's as an opportunity to communicate more with their significant other, compared with 47% of those 36-47, 50% of baby boomers (48-66), and 45% of those 67+.
- Younger generations, perhaps not surprisingly, are also more likely to say they expect to get lucky this Valentine's Day.
- 59% of those age 36-47 and 57% of those 18-35 indicate they will probably get lucky on Valentine's Day, compared with 46% of people age 48-66 and 25% of those 67 or older.
- What is a bit more shocking is that moms and dads are making more time for nookie: 60% of adults with children under 18 in their household anticipate getting lucky on Valentine's Day, compared with only 44% of those without children at home.
What Women Want
Forget the heart-shaped box of chocolates, guys. Flowers rank as the number one gift women would most like to receive (16%) and men are most likely to give (25%) on Valentine's, but things veer off course a bit from there.
- Jewelry and candy tie for second place as the gift men are most likely to give, both at 11%.
- Among women, however, a day of pampering (14%) is the second highest-ranked gift they would like to receive. Of those, half are bound to be disappointed as only 7% of men plan to present their sweetheart with a gift card to the local spa.
- Jewelry ranks third among women, with 13% saying it's what they'd most like to unwrap.
- One in 10 women hope for a little help around the house come V day, but they're likely to be disappointed. Though 10% of women identify a housecleaner for a month as the gift they'd most like to receive, less than 1% of men are planning to hire an extra set of hands to pick up the cleaning duties.
Sweet Tooth
While candy may not have topped women's wish lists, over one-third of Americans (34%) do have plans to purchase something sweet to celebrate the day of love. Though pink and red M&M's and conversation hearts displaying messages of love both have their place, Hershey's wins out as the top brand candy buyers intend to purchase this year (30%). Here's how likely candy shoppers say they are to purchase the following brands this Valentine's Day:
- Hershey's - 30%
- Russell Stover - 27%
- Godiva - 24%
- M&M/Mars - 21%
- Ghirardelli - 20%
- Lindt - 17%
- Nestle - 11%
- Cadbury - 9%
- See's Candies - 8%
- Brach's - 8%
TABLE 1
AGREEMENT WITH VALENTINE'S DAY STATEMENT
[Summary of "Somewhat/Strongly Agree" and "Somewhat/Strongly Disagree" Ratings]
by Generation, Gender & Children in HH
"The next few questions are about Valentine's Day. How much do you agree or disagree with the following statements?"
Base: U.S. Adults
|
Total
|
Generation
|
Gender
|
Children <18 in hh
|
|
Echo Boomers (18-35)
|
Gen Xers (36-47)
|
Baby Boomers (48-66)
|
Matures (67+)
|
Males
|
Females
|
Yes
|
No
|
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
|
I look at Valentine's Day as an opportunity to communicate more with my significant other.
|
50
|
55
|
47
|
50
|
45
|
53
|
48
|
52
|
49
|
|
31
|
26
|
37
|
33
|
27
|
30
|
32
|
32
|
30
|
|
I will probably have sex on Valentine's Day.
|
49
|
57
|
59
|
46
|
25
|
51
|
47
|
60
|
44
|
|
34
|
30
|
27
|
36
|
45
|
35
|
33
|
28
|
36
|
|
I would rather get a gift certificate for a massage than have my significant other give me a massage for Valentine's Day.
|
27
|
30
|
32
|
27
|
14
|
23
|
31
|
31
|
25
|
|
54
|
55
|
54
|
57
|
48
|
59
|
50
|
55
|
54
|
|
With all the pressure surrounding gifts, I would rather be single on Valentine's Day.
|
23
|
33
|
23
|
18
|
14
|
25
|
20
|
28
|
21
|
|
62
|
58
|
63
|
65
|
58
|
63
|
60
|
62
|
61
|
|
I would rather have a root canal than be single on Valentine's Day.
|
19
|
27
|
17
|
17
|
14
|
24
|
16
|
21
|
19
|
|
64
|
66
|
68
|
64
|
58
|
62
|
66
|
69
|
62
|
Note: Percentages may not add up to 100% due to rounding
TABLE 2
GIFT WOULD MOST LIKE TO RECEIVE FOR VALENTINE'S DAY
by Generation, Gender & Children in HH
"Thinking about gifts, among the items below, what would you most like to receive for Valentine's Day?"
Base: U.S. Adults
|
Total
|
Generation
|
Gender
|
Children <18 in hh
|
|
Echo Boomers (18-35)
|
Gen Xers (36-47)
|
Baby Boomers (48-66)
|
Matures (67+)
|
Males
|
Females
|
Yes
|
No
|
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
|
Day of pampering, i.e. massages, steam or sauna, etc.
|
10
|
12
|
11
|
9
|
8
|
6
|
14
|
12
|
10
|
|
Flowers
|
9
|
10
|
7
|
10
|
8
|
2
|
16
|
10
|
9
|
|
Jewelry
|
9
|
12
|
8
|
10
|
2
|
4
|
13
|
11
|
8
|
|
Candy
|
9
|
11
|
9
|
8
|
6
|
11
|
7
|
7
|
9
|
|
House cleaner for one month
|
7
|
3
|
9
|
8
|
11
|
4
|
10
|
11
|
6
|
|
Breakfast in bed
|
5
|
9
|
7
|
3
|
2
|
8
|
3
|
6
|
5
|
|
Coupon book of IOUs
|
4
|
3
|
6
|
4
|
3
|
6
|
3
|
3
|
5
|
|
Day off of parenting duties
|
2
|
4
|
2
|
*
|
-
|
2
|
2
|
6
|
-
|
|
Lingerie
|
1
|
4
|
*
|
*
|
1
|
1
|
2
|
1
|
1
|
|
None of these
|
44
|
31
|
40
|
49
|
58
|
57
|
32
|
33
|
47
|
Note: Percentages may not add up to 100% due to rounding; * indicates <0.5%; - indicates 0%.
TABLE 3
GIFT MOST LIKELY TO GIVE FOR VALENTINE'S DAY
by Generation, Gender & Children in HH
"Thinking about gifts, among the items below, what are you most likely to give for Valentine's Day?"
Base: U.S. Adults
|
Total
|
Generation
|
Gender
|
Children <18 in hh
|
|
Echo Boomers (18-35)
|
Gen Xers (36-47)
|
Baby Boomers (48-66)
|
Matures (67+)
|
Males
|
Females
|
Yes
|
No
|
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
|
Flowers
|
14
|
15
|
12
|
15
|
10
|
25
|
5
|
12
|
15
|
|
Candy
|
14
|
15
|
13
|
14
|
11
|
11
|
16
|
14
|
13
|
|
Jewelry
|
7
|
8
|
7
|
6
|
5
|
11
|
2
|
10
|
5
|
|
Day of pampering, i.e. massages, steam or sauna, etc.
|
6
|
10
|
6
|
4
|
4
|
7
|
5
|
7
|
5
|
|
Breakfast in bed
|
5
|
7
|
7
|
5
|
3
|
3
|
7
|
7
|
5
|
|
Coupon book of IOUs
|
3
|
4
|
4
|
3
|
1
|
1
|
5
|
3
|
3
|
|
Lingerie
|
2
|
4
|
3
|
*
|
2
|
2
|
2
|
4
|
1
|
|
Day off of parenting duties
|
1
|
2
|
2
|
*
|
*
|
1
|
1
|
3
|
*
|
|
House cleaner for one month
|
*
|
*
|
1
|
*
|
*
|
*
|
1
|
1
|
*
|
|
None of these
|
48
|
34
|
44
|
53
|
64
|
38
|
57
|
39
|
52
|
Note: Percentages may not add up to 100% due to rounding; * indicates <0.5%; - indicates 0%.
TABLE 4
GIFT MOST LIKE TO GIVE/RECEIVE COMPARISON BY GENDER
"Thinking about gifts, among the items below, what are you most likely to give for Valentine's Day?"
"Thinking about gifts, among the items below, what would you most like to receive for Valentine's Day?"
Base: U.S. Adults
|
Men - most likely to give
|
Women - would most like to receive
|
|
|
Women - most likely to give
|
Men - would most like to receive
|
|
% (rank)
|
% (rank)
|
% (rank)
|
% (rank)
|
|
Flowers
|
25 (1)
|
16 (1)
|
|
Candy
|
16 (1)
|
11 (1)
|
|
Jewelry
|
11 (2 - tie)
|
13 (3)
|
|
Breakfast in bed
|
7 (2)
|
8 (2)
|
|
Candy
|
11 (2 - tie)
|
7 (5)
|
|
Day of pampering, i.e. massages, steam or sauna, etc.
|
5 (3 - tie)
|
6 (3 - tie)
|
|
Day of pampering, i.e. massages, steam or sauna, etc.
|
7 (4)
|
14 (2)
|
|
Coupon book of IOUs
|
5 (3 - tie)
|
6 (3 - tie)
|
|
House cleaner for one month
|
<0.5 (9)
|
10 (3)
|
|
Flowers
|
5(3 - tie)
|
2 (6 - tie)
|
|
None of these
|
38
|
32
|
|
None of these
|
57
|
57
|
TABLE 5
ITEMS LIKELY TO PURCHASE THIS YEAR AS VALENTINE'S DAY GIFTS
by Generation, Gender & Children in HH
"Which of the following items are you likely to purchase this year as Valentine's Day gifts?"
Base: U.S. Adults
|
Total
|
Generation
|
Gender
|
Children <18 in hh
|
|
Echo Boomers (18-35)
|
Gen Xers (36-47)
|
Baby Boomers (48-66)
|
Matures (67+)
|
Males
|
Females
|
Yes
|
No
|
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
|
Candy
|
34
|
43
|
34
|
32
|
26
|
29
|
39
|
41
|
32
|
|
Flowers
|
25
|
32
|
26
|
23
|
19
|
43
|
10
|
27
|
25
|
|
Jewelry
|
11
|
13
|
12
|
8
|
8
|
18
|
4
|
17
|
8
|
|
None of these
|
49
|
41
|
48
|
52
|
57
|
39
|
57
|
40
|
52
|
Note: Percentages may not add up to 100% due to rounding; * indicates <0.5%; - indicates 0%.
TABLE 6
CANDY BRANDS PLANNING ON PURCHASING AS VALENTINE'S DAY PRESENTS
by Generation, Gender & Children in HH
"Which of the following brands of candy do you plan on purchasing as Valentine's Day presents?"
Base: Likely to purchase candy
|
Total
|
Generation
|
Gender
|
Children <18 in hh
|
|
Echo Boomers (18-35)
|
Gen Xers (36-47)
|
Baby Boomers (48-66)
|
Matures (67+)
|
Males
|
Females
|
Yes
|
No
|
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
|
Hershey's
|
30
|
47
|
24
|
22
|
13
|
27
|
31
|
39
|
25
|
|
Russel Stover
|
27
|
25
|
22
|
30
|
29
|
32
|
23
|
24
|
28
|
|
Godiva
|
24
|
23
|
27
|
22
|
29
|
28
|
22
|
26
|
23
|
|
M&M/Mars
|
21
|
28
|
24
|
16
|
7
|
18
|
22
|
24
|
19
|
|
Ghiradhelli
|
20
|
24
|
17
|
17
|
21
|
19
|
21
|
20
|
20
|
|
Lindt
|
17
|
19
|
16
|
13
|
24
|
13
|
19
|
14
|
18
|
|
Nestle
|
11
|
15
|
16
|
5
|
7
|
13
|
9
|
7
|
13
|
|
Cadbury
|
9
|
5
|
15
|
9
|
9
|
10
|
8
|
9
|
9
|
|
See's
|
8
|
5
|
11
|
10
|
9
|
12
|
6
|
9
|
8
|
|
Brach's
|
8
|
10
|
6
|
7
|
5
|
8
|
7
|
10
|
6
|
|
Another brand not listed
|
12
|
14
|
6
|
14
|
10
|
9
|
14
|
11
|
12
|
|
Not sure
|
18
|
13
|
22
|
18
|
31
|
16
|
20
|
14
|
20
|
Note: Percentages may not add up to 100% due to rounding; * indicates <0.5%; - indicates 0%.
TABLE 7
WHERE PLANNING ON PURCHASING FLOWERS THIS VALENTINE'S DAY
by Generation, Gender & Children in HH
"Where will you purchase flowers from this Valentine's Day?"
Base: Likely to purchase flowers
|
Total
|
Generation
|
Gender
|
Children <18 in hh
|
|
Echo Boomers (18-35)
|
Gen Xers (36-47)
|
Baby Boomers (48-66)
|
Matures (67+)
|
Males
|
Females
|
Yes
|
No
|
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
%
|
|
Local florist or store
|
60
|
56
|
51
|
66
|
68
|
59
|
62
|
64
|
58
|
|
1-800-Flowers (or 1800flowers.com)
|
7
|
12
|
6
|
3
|
6
|
7
|
9
|
4
|
9
|
|
ProFlowers.com
|
6
|
5
|
13
|
3
|
1
|
6
|
4
|
6
|
5
|
|
FTD.com
|
3
|
1
|
5
|
5
|
-
|
3
|
3
|
2
|
4
|
|
Some other location not mentioned
|
13
|
14
|
12
|
13
|
11
|
14
|
10
|
10
|
14
|
|
Not sure
|
12
|
11
|
13
|
10
|
16
|
12
|
11
|
15
|
10
|
Note: Percentages may not add up to 100% due to rounding; * indicates <0.5%; - indicates 0%.
Methodology
This Harris Poll was conducted online within the United States between January 17 and 22, 2013 among 2,278 adults (aged 18 and over). Figures for age, sex, race/ethnicity, education, region and household income were weighted where necessary to bring them into line with their actual proportions in the population. Propensity score weighting was also used to adjust for respondents' propensity to be online.
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The Harris Poll ® #7, February 11, 2013
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